when is it time to let go

I have been asking myself this question for a while.  When is it time to be done... when is it you have done all you can do and there us nothing left.  After being torn down, being told your not loved, wanted in anyway, or doesn't even want to be around. What are you to do then but cry. Yes I said it cry that's all some people can do as they wrap there minds around what's happening.


Its hard to keep a relationship alive,  I mean things can come in the way friendships with people of the opposite sex, pushing each other away, always finding the faults in the other person, and not lisening and trying to work out the rough patches.

Examples, saying something like I don't love you and don't know why I am still here, or you mean nothing to me. What do you say to that,  how do you take that in, how do u let go. Or this you have a friendship with someone of the opposite sex and its interfering with your relationship with your significant other, do you carry that friendship on or do you listen to the other person and put there needs ahead of your own. It's a hard road and when your at a crossroads what do you do, do u go the opposite way or do you follow the person maybe you are behind trying to catch up, how do you catch up how do you run and grab that persons hand and stay on the road together? If I only new maybe I wouldn't be in the boat I am in now.

For me I think its having a God centered relationship. Before you can more forward you have to ask God for forgiveness of the past. Help to move forward,  to take everything with a grain of salt. That when we get angry instead of saying things that will hurt the other person,  we take it to God ask him to help us speak words of kindness of love and words that build up and don't tear down. Which let me just say this blogger at times has a hard time doing when words of hurt are thrown at me I throw them right back. Say stuff I shouldn't. So I even need to learn from the words, to pray for words of peace and not words of hate or anger.

So when do you let go.. well as a christian we are called to a different standard. We are to forgive,  to not keep count of wrongs,  to seek God. Pray ask God what to do, seek counseling and advice from someone who is Godly and will have you seek God.

So when is it time to give up... I will let you decide for yourselves.